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Post by arteest on Tue Nov 02, 2010 9:15 am

hello CGP masters!

Sharing naman tayo! Magshe-share lang sana ako ng pangyayari dito sa thread na ito para maluwagan naman itong nararamdaman ko..


I recently had a severe car accident due to over-taking tapos at high speed na rin. The car was totally damaged and wrecked. Buti na lang, both the driver and I survived. It's been a month i think.. And until now, i think i am still suffering from post-traumatic stress and injury.

Signs like news about car accidents ay parati kong naririnig sa radyo at TV which makes it even harder for me to cope up. But hopefully.. makaka-move on na ako.. Paminsan-minsan nga raw ay tulala ako sabi pa ng mga kaibigan ko..


Mahirap palang mag move on sa pangyayaring ito lalo na may mga nagpaparamdam na mga signs.. Sad
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Re: coping up

Post by bokkins on Tue Nov 02, 2010 12:58 pm

Sad to here that. Pero kaya mo yan. It's really good to look forward for the bright future rather than looking back to a dark past. Always look at the bright side! Enjoy life. You are very lucky, and you know that! thumbsup
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Re: coping up

Post by vamp_lestat on Tue Nov 02, 2010 1:06 pm

hi bro... its good that you are sharing this one.. baka sumabog ka na sa kakaisip.... anyways... time will heal everything... wag masyado mag padala sa nararamdaman. mind over matter... be thankful that walang napahamak na buhay and drive carefully next time.

try not to listen sa mga balita na katulad sa pinagdadaan mo. dahan dahan makaka move on ka din nyan. dont self pity bro... enjoy life!!!
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Re: coping up

Post by vhychenq on Tue Nov 02, 2010 1:29 pm

Milagro ata yung nangyari sayo.Car was totaly damaged kamo?but still nabuhay ka para i-share yun?hehehe!
pag-ingatan mo na po yang second life that has given to you,second chance to live!Enjoy life po! Godbless!

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Re: coping up

Post by arteest on Tue Nov 02, 2010 9:14 pm

thank you mga masters! oo nga.. mejo nakakanginig nga yung nangyari..

i'm sharing this one so that maluwagan naman ako.. mabigat sa damidamin pag kinimkim ko pa ito. hahaha!

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Re: coping up

Post by ortzak on Tue Nov 02, 2010 9:19 pm

2nd Chance mo na yan..make your life meaningful...also try to read the Bible and talk to Him...tingnan mo malaki matutulong..
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Re: coping up

Post by Norman on Tue Nov 02, 2010 9:28 pm

mawawala din yan dude, bago pa kasi.....keep busy and move on para mawala sa isip mo yan. dasal dasal lagi malaki matutulong nyan para sa iyo...
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Re: coping up

Post by vonlorena on Tue Nov 02, 2010 10:03 pm

hang in there dude...you will be back on your feet in no time...free your mind and take this opportunity to make life more meaningful... Very Happy

you are one of the lucky ones! make it count!
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Re: coping up

Post by LOOKER on Tue Nov 02, 2010 11:22 pm

manuod ka ng "pilipinas win na win", madaming tao na mas malala ang problem kaysa sayo. Buti ka nga may kotse ka eh, so i can assume that you're from a well-off family,,, sila no money in a life and death situation...
toughen up more,,, asan na ang girl power?

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Re: coping up

Post by arteest on Wed Nov 03, 2010 12:01 am

LOOKER wrote:manuod ka ng "pilipinas win na win", madaming tao na mas malala ang problem kaysa sayo. Buti ka nga may kotse ka eh, so i can assume that you're from a well-off family,,, sila no money in a life and death situation...
toughen up more,,, asan na ang girl power?

ahaha.. hindi po.. nakikisakay ako at that time lang.. hehehe
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Re: coping up

Post by kat palmares on Wed Nov 03, 2010 2:47 am

wow, then God loves you so much that He wanted you to experience more of life...so dont let him down and just continue living your life. try to smile once in a while,,, you're already doing good by opening up.!
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Re: coping up

Post by arteest on Wed Nov 03, 2010 6:20 am

kat palmares wrote:wow, then God loves you so much that He wanted you to experience more of life...so dont let him down and just continue living your life. try to smile once in a while,,, you're already doing good by opening up.!

yeah.. i guess so.. Smile
the driver was a friend of mine..

iyon nga lang.. We haven't got spoken to one another or even a text message. wala pa kasi akong lakas para itext siya or kamustahin man lang because frsh pa iyong accident. But i'm praying that he is ok.. Smile

matagal tagal na rin akong hindi lumalabas ng bahay.. Smile
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Re: coping up

Post by marcelinoiii on Wed Nov 03, 2010 9:27 am

First of all, I would like to say that God do have plans for you. I know you are thankful for this second life of yours, but as you are, do focus on the signs you are seeing now, those would be the ones to change your life, if not for the better, for the best... come to think of it, you may realize your purpose in life, it's usually for the good of others, meaning how would God make use of you for His glory. Try to start on it by talking to the guy/friend you were with that time, I am sure you two would have special things to share together, could be the very reason why both of you survived... Words are not enough to express all these, keep praying, the answers are always in Him! God bless and always enjoy life to the fullest, by walking with Jesus each day of your life! inuman na
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Re: coping up

Post by BunnyBliss™ on Wed Nov 03, 2010 9:34 am

Makaka-move on ka din dyan, nagkagnyan na rin kasi kme eh:D about 2 months ako d maka-move on, pero mwawala din yan:))
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Re: coping up

Post by dumzblood on Wed Nov 03, 2010 10:15 am

proper mind conditioning bro is what you need ...
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Re: coping up

Post by arteest on Wed Nov 03, 2010 10:54 am

yah.. parang ganoon na nga.. i have to condition my mind..
i really thought super madali lang mag-move on sa ganitong bagay.. ngunit hindi pala.. akala ko in an instant, makaka-move on ka na, hindi pala...

nakakabaliw.. sana makausap ko na ang kaibigan ko at ng malaman ko kung ano ba talaga nangyari during the accident..
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Re: coping up

Post by Guest on Wed Nov 03, 2010 9:39 pm

it's all in the mind..
patingin ka sa psychologist. aware ka naman sa post-traumatic stress disorder mo eh.. so meaning nasa katinuan ka pa.

"nakakabaliw" you said .. yes, you will if you continue dwelling on it.

seek professional help..
and don't do anything na mey maaawa sayo. kasi lalong lalala yan "disorder" mo.

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Post by arteest on Wed Nov 03, 2010 9:51 pm

KettleRenderer wrote:it's all in the mind..
patingin ka sa psychologist. aware ka naman sa post-traumatic stress disorder mo eh.. so meaning nasa katinuan ka pa.

"nakakabaliw" you said .. yes, you will if you continue dwelling on it.

seek professional help..
and don't do anything na mey maaawa sayo. kasi lalong lalala yan "disorder" mo.

thanks..
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