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Post by hibachi on Thu Jun 04, 2009 12:04 am

Hello mga Cgpips! I know this is far way off na topic sa pag 3d but i just wanna share if may mga naka experience na ba dito sa relationship na nasayo na yung perfect mong counterpart pero nawala pa sa piling mo. and kung ano yung reason kung bakit siya nawala na deep inside na alam mo na mahal na mahal mo parin.

Guys, pls. eag complete name yung ilagay just the first name tpos yung initial ng family name nya para kahit papano may privacy.. thanks a lot for sharing your personal side.

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Re: The one that Got away...

Post by pixelburn on Thu Jun 04, 2009 12:11 am

oo naexperience ko yan,, yang akala ko din nung elementary ako, puppy love kung baga, ang pangalan nya ay lyka (nde nya tunay na pangalan). pinaglayo kami ng tadhana, at marami ang nagsabi nde kami nararapat!!!

O.T. mukhang napapanahon ito ah, parang ung bannder din,, medyo patungkol sa marriage!!! hehehe

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Re: The one that Got away...

Post by Joaquin on Thu Jun 04, 2009 12:18 am

ako naalala ko si Juliet B. medyo magkaawy kse pamilya namin as in mortal na kaaway pero napaibig kme sa isat-isa naalala ko nun tga st. scho siya and marrist naman ako.

Valedictorian siya and first honorable mention naman ako pareho kming umibig. pero dulot ng aming pamilya kaya kme naghiwalay...

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Re: The one that Got away...

Post by pixelburn on Thu Jun 04, 2009 12:25 am

@ sir Joaquin, hmmm !!!! juliet??? teka, teka ,,,,parang nabasa ko na sa nobela ito ah, ito ba ung sinulat ni shakespeare,,,, ito po ba ung makabagbag damdaming nobelang "florante at laura"

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Post by Joaquin on Thu Jun 04, 2009 12:29 am

@ Sir Pixelburn parang naisulat kse sa tadhana pero yung similarities nagkwnto ng buhay namin parng hindi "florante at laura" kung hindi the count of monte cristo.

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Re: The one that Got away...

Post by KettleRenderer on Thu Jun 04, 2009 12:50 am

ALMOST GOT AWAY

In your life, you'll make note of a lot of people. Ones with whom you shared something special, ones who will always mean something. There's the one you first kissed, the one you first loved, the one you lost your virginity to, the one you put on a pedestal, the one you're with...and the one that got away...

Who is the one that got away? I guess it's that person with who everything was great, everything was perfect, but the timing was just wrong. There was no fault in the person, there was no flaw in the chemistry, but the cards just didn't fall the right way, I suppose.

I believe in the fact that ending up with someone, finding a longtime partner that is, does not lie merely in the other person. I can actually argue that an equal part, or maybe even the greater part, has to do with the matter of timing. It has to do with you being ready to settle down and commit to someone in a way that goes beyond the little niceties of giddy romance.

How often have you gone through it without even realizing it? When you're not ready to commit in that mature manner, it doesn't matter who you're with, it just doesn't work. Small problems become big; inconsequentials become deal breakers simply because you're not ready and it shows. It's not that you and the person you're with are no good; it's just that it's not yet right, and little things become the flashpoint of that fact.

Then one day you're ready. You really are. And when this happens you'll be ready to settle down with someone. He or she may not be the most perfect, they might not be the brightest star of romance to ever have burned in your life, but it'll work because you're ready. It'll work because it's the right time and you'll make it work. And it'll make sense, it really will.

So that day comes when you're finally making sense of things, and you find yourself to be a different person. Things are different, your approach is different, you finally understand who you are and what you want, and you've become ready because the time has truly arrived. And mind you, there's no telling when this day will come. Hopefully you're single but you could be in a long-term relationship, you could be married with three kids, it doesn't matter. All you know is that you've changed, and for some reason, the one that got away, is the first person you think about.

You'll think about them because you'll wonder, "What if they were here today?" You'll wonder, "What if we were together now, with me as I am and not as I was?" That's what the one that got away is. The biggest "What if?" you'll have in your life.

If you're married, you'll just have to accept the fact that the one that got away, got away. Believe me, no matter how fairy tale you think your marriage is, this can happen to the best of us. But hopefully you're mature enough to realize that you're already with the one you're with and this is just another test of your commitment, one which will just strengthen your marriage when you get past it. Sure, you'll think about him/her every so often, but it's alright. It's never nice to live with a "might have been," but it happens.

Maybe the one that got away is the one who's already married. In which case, it's the same thing. You just have to accept and know that your memories of that person will probably bring a nice little smile to your lips in the future when you're old and gray and reminiscing.

But if neither of that is the case, then it's different. What do you do if it's not yet too late? Simple...find him, find her. Because the very existence of a "one that got away" means that you'll always wonder, what if you got that one?

Ask him out to coffee, ask her out to a movie, it doesn't matter if you've dropped in from out of nowhere. You'd be surprised, you just might be "the one that got away" as well for the person who is your "the one that got away."

You might drop in from out of nowhere and it won't make a difference. If the timing is finally right, it'll all just fall into place somehow and you know, I'm thinking, it would be a great feeling, in the end, to be able to say to someone, "Hey you, you're the one that almost got away."

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Re: The one that Got away...

Post by Joaquin on Thu Jun 04, 2009 12:54 am

Wow chie! you blew my mind sinulat mo toh? astig!

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Re: The one that Got away...

Post by KettleRenderer on Thu Jun 04, 2009 12:59 am

ngiii.. hindi ko yan sinulat.. how i wish i could write that way ..
i also have "almost got away" apparently, we are still very much in contact.. so technically he never got away yet.. but i think the feeling was gone ... or the feeling that he felt 10yrs ago.. or maybe he was just waiting for me to get ready ... he's a US AIR FORCE .. pero pinoy na pinoy..

in the end.. it's not a matter of who .. but when ...

try to watch .. Definitely, Maybe ..

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Re: The one that Got away...

Post by arki_TINZ on Thu Jun 04, 2009 8:20 pm

while reading this thread may naalala akong song,,eheh
"What If" by Babyface..
just want to share the lyrics..

I ran into a friend of yours the other day
And I asked her how you been
She said my girl is fine just bought a house
Got a job a real good man
I told her I was glad for u that's wonderful
But does she ever ask bout me
She said shes happy with her life right now
Let her go let her be

And I told myself I would
but something in my heart would just not let you go
I just want to know

What if we were wrong about each other
what if you were really made for me
what if we were supposed to be together
would that not mean anything
what if that was supposed to be my house
that you go home to everyday
how can you be sure that things are better
if you cant be sure your heart ain't still here with me
Still wanting me

Your friend asked me if there was some1 special
in my life that I was seeing
I told her there was no1 in particular
There's just I myself and me
I told her that I dream of you quite often
she just cut her eyes at me
she said you've got a home you're very happy
so just stop your meddling

I told her that I won't
I said that things were cool
but I guess I was wrong
I still cant move on

What if we were wrong about each other
what if you were really made for me
what if we were supposed to be together
would that not mean anything
what if that was supposed to be my house
that you go home to everyday
how can you be sure that things are better
if you cant be sure your heart ain't still here with me
Still wanting me

Now that could be my car
that could be my house
that could be my baby boy
that you're nursing
that could be the trash
That I always take out
that could be the chair
I love to chill in

That could be my food on the table at the end of the day
hugs and the kisses all the love being made
what the hell do u expect me to say
what if its really supposed be this way
what if you're really supposed to be with me

What if we were wrong about each other
what if you were really made for me
what if we were supposed to be together
would that not mean anything
what if that was supposed to be my house
that you go home to everyday
how can you be sure that things are better
if you cant be sure your heart ain't still here with me
Still wanting me

What if we were wrong about each other
what if you were really made for me
what if we were supposed to be together
would that not mean anything
what if that was supposed to be my house
that you go home to everyday
how can you be sure that things are better
if you cant be sure your heart ain't still here with me
Still wanting me

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Re: The one that Got away...

Post by Muggz on Fri Jul 17, 2009 2:44 pm

Akuy isang Bano,,,at siy namay isang Anghel,,,Me Asawa na siya ngayon,,,shackss Sad

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