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Post by wireframan on Tue Jul 07, 2009 12:50 am

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Hello Guys! I'm back! sa matagala na pananahik. This time I'm not going to share any renderings, music,pictures, but my problem in the office.

My senior keeps on Scolding and Bullying me. Nakaka personal na talaga at so degrading ang mag salita nya he treat me and even my partner renderer as idiots! Talagang nakakakulo ng dugo ang ginagawa nya. Minsa kakaibiganin ka nya sasabay sayo mag lunch out at even try my hobbies too! but ang kapalit sang katerbang pang lalait. Sa katunayan hindi naman cya marunong mag 3d or even photoshop kahit anung program hindi nya alam freehand lang alam nya. Pero kung may hindi cya gusto sa rendering sa renderer kaagad ang lalaitin at may kasalanan. Buti lang sana kung ang gina gamit nya na mga salita ay magaan pakinggan kasi part ng trabahu natin ang revisions ehh..sabihin ba naman na gago ka hindi ka nag iisip hindi mo alam ang ginagawa mo! Di ba ibang usapan na yun personal na yun na na trabaho yun. Iniisip ko mimsan parang gusto nya akong umalis sa company or gumaganti lang cya dahil nung una daw inaapi daw cya ng boss namin babae at sa ibang company ng resign daw cya kasi gun din. By the way isa po cya Thailander.

Anu ba dapat kung gawin uupakan ko na lang ba to? parang hindi ko na mapigil sarili ko nanginginig na ako sa upoaan kaya ko namang makipag away sa kayan eh. Kaso ang iniisip ko ang future ko ang misis ko at trabaho ko. Gustohin ko mang mag hanap ng ibang work walang makita kasi recession pa rin. Pasalamt cya kasi nandito kami sa Singapore kung sa pinas lang lama nyo na!

Sorry guys kumokulo pa ang dugo ko hanggang ngayun kahapon lang po nangyari to. Sana matulongan nyo ako.

Salamat.

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Re: Office Problem

Post by torvicz on Tue Jul 07, 2009 5:01 am

If alls fail, introduce him to me. I'll make him look stupid for you. Smile
hahaha, I like this one!

Di nagwawagi ang tumatakas. Beat him do not escape from him.

tama dude! eto rin advise ko sayo....wag mo atrasan yan!
kayang kaya mo yan....insecure naman talaga dude e....
walang mangyayari kung lilipat ka lng tapos meron nanamang katulad nyan...fight dude!




basta paglapag sa pinas....tawagin mo lng ang tropang cgp nang magulpi yan! hehe

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Re: Office Problem

Post by Yhna on Tue Jul 07, 2009 5:15 am

If alls fail, introduce him to me. I'll make him look stupid for you.
astigin.... i like this one...2thumbsup

Di nagwawagi ang tumatakas. Beat him do not escape from him. 2thumbsup

basta paglapag sa pinas....tawagin mo lng ang tropang cgp nang magulpi yan! hehe


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basta boss dito lng kami sa iyong tabi... suportahan taka...

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Re: Office Problem

Post by render master on Tue Jul 07, 2009 5:28 am

hmmm gulo na nga iyong tao, gagatungan pa natin. best things to do, is to talk with him, wag muna regarding sa work. i mean be friendly to him kahit di sya friendly. invite him one time na kumain or seat with him habang kumakain sya. offer him something like coffe or tea....minsan kapag may baon ka alukin..... bawat people may kanya-kanyang shortcomings, it so happen na baka iyong work mo lang nag napagdiskitahan that time..... or baka may pressure lang sa kanya and ang naging outlet lang eh iyong work mo...at kapag medyo ok na kayo ng konti then settle nyo iyong mga expectations.... baka iba ang taste nya sa renderings or baka iba ang gusto nyang approach and many things....

minsan kase nakikita kaaagad natin iyong galit ng tao eh iyon pala nasa atin din ang mga pagkukulang........i dont want to say you or him is right. im just talking in general.. peace man

kapag ala pa ring effect then make an alternative. bandera


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Re: Office Problem

Post by cubi_o: on Tue Jul 07, 2009 5:31 am

yep. i agree with their advices sir!
basta wag mo lng ipakita na mahina ka.
"fight back" not physically ha...hehehe

if no changes pa rin.... we'll send our al qaeda group there...hehehe.
noh seriously....just keep your patience still and follow the
advices on the above notes. Very Happy

Wink

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Re: Office Problem

Post by mokong on Tue Jul 07, 2009 5:53 am

advice ko bro.. ipa sulat mo sa papel yung gusto niya na design na ipagawa sayo with his signature pra pag e blame ka niya eh meron kang mapakita na yan ang gusto niya.. o di kaya e sumbong mo sa boss mo pra malaman niya tapos the next thing maulit pa ang pang aapi sayo cguro u fight back na but not physical.. den pag ipa tawag kau ng boss mo atleast alam na niya.. 2thumbsup

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Re: Office Problem

Post by wireframan on Tue Jul 07, 2009 8:37 am

Salamt sa mga advice nyo mga sirs..

Yes sir mushroom cya yun! angas talag sabi nga ng HR namin may hangin daw sa ulo. Dati hindi ako sumasagot pero nung pag katapus kaming pinatawag ng CEO namin dun na akong ng simulang sumagot sa kanya. Masyado lang talagang taas ang paningin nya sa sarili nya. Naalala ko nung unang araw ko dito talagang empyerno! dinidiktahan ba naman ako kung panu mag model at mag render e hindi naman cya marunong lahit isang program sa pag gawa ng 3d! na experience then to nila ni rockgem at rfr subra ang pang iinsulto nya sa min nun.

Do't worry mga guys I can manage this wag nya lang sana akong siraan kasi wala akong masama sa kanya at sa company.

Sir V thanks sa payo at sa lahat. Sa ngayun unti2x ng nawala ang galit ko. I hope bukas ok na ang lahat. D ko na cya kakausapin kasi nagawa ko na dati ganun pa rin so no point na i know na alam nya ang ginagawa nya sa akin at alam nya kung anu ang feeling ng inaapi sa trabaho kasi naranasan nya rin yun at cya nag sabi na mas worst pa daw sa ginagawa nya sa akin soft lang daw ang sa kanya. Yes sinabi nya yun!

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Re: Office Problem

Post by vamp_lestat on Tue Jul 07, 2009 10:34 am

grabeh toh.. kakagigil ah.. hai.. parang i feel the same way sir. ung ika nga wala ka namang masamang pagtingin sa kanya.. i tapos sya.. bat ganun ung treatment nya sau. buti sa akin... nasa pinas lang ako. nakakausap ko ng matino ung tao... sa awa ng dyos... we get along much better than before. sana sir. ma overcome mo yan. that's all i can i wish for you. fight back sir... prove yourself... di kelangan marami kang sabihin. just continue to act wisely, feel confident lang sa sarili mo na you're on the right track.

di purke thailander xa magaling xa mua thai... wag syang mag-aangas sa lalaking may balbas. tau ung mga tipo na hindi umaatras. PAROKYA NA...

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Re: Office Problem

Post by celes on Tue Jul 07, 2009 10:47 am

wireframan wrote:Salamt sa mga advice nyo mga sirs..

Yes sir mushroom cya yun! angas talag sabi nga ng HR namin may hangin daw sa ulo. Dati hindi ako sumasagot pero nung pag katapus kaming pinatawag ng CEO namin dun na akong ng simulang sumagot sa kanya. Masyado lang talagang taas ang paningin nya sa sarili nya. Naalala ko nung unang araw ko dito talagang empyerno! dinidiktahan ba naman ako kung panu mag model at mag render e hindi naman cya marunong lahit isang program sa pag gawa ng 3d! na experience then to nila ni rockgem at rfr subra ang pang iinsulto nya sa min nun.

Do't worry mga guys I can manage this wag nya lang sana akong siraan kasi wala akong masama sa kanya at sa company.

Sir V thanks sa payo at sa lahat. Sa ngayun unti2x ng nawala ang galit ko. I hope bukas ok na ang lahat. D ko na cya kakausapin kasi nagawa ko na dati ganun pa rin so no point na i know na alam nya ang ginagawa nya sa akin at alam nya kung anu ang feeling ng inaapi sa trabaho kasi naranasan nya rin yun at cya nag sabi na mas worst pa daw sa ginagawa nya sa akin soft lang daw ang sa kanya. Yes sinabi nya yun!

tsk. sabi na nga ba.

dati pag me ganyang inggitero sinasabi ko sa sarili ko: pagwapuhan na lang. buttrock

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Re: Office Problem

Post by Alapaap on Tue Jul 07, 2009 4:54 pm

Mahirap kapag di ka na masaya sa trabaho mo at nalamatan na ang relasyon niyo...wala ng patutungoan yan..para kang may maliit na mitya na pagnasindihan sasabog na lang..mahirap tiisin yan kosa kasi kapag bumigay ka niyan tuloy tuloy,sigurado baka mabasag mo bungo niyan..umpisahan mo ng maghanap ng ibang malilipatan hanggat maaga

dipa nakakatikim kasi ng malutong na sapok yan...to earn respect kailangan minsan maging marahas ka o pakitaan ng preba..pero na sa ibang bansa ka dapat nasa lugar ang pag galaw di pwede tira pasok...pagaralan mo

trabaho pinunta mo diyan hindi kalaboso..pero kung nadisgrasya na wag na wag kang aamin,wag mong mamantyahan sa mukha,dapat walang tao o nakakakita..at sa huli maghanda ka ng pang areglo mo sa kaniya para di ka tuloyan ..

Pansamantala... tingnan mo lang lagi ang picture ng anak mo,ang pamilya mo...makakatulong yan sa pagiisip mo at kung ano man ang magiging desisyon mo

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Re: Office Problem

Post by v_wrangler on Tue Jul 07, 2009 6:36 pm

render master wrote:hmmm gulo na nga iyong tao, gagatungan pa natin.
rendermaster talaga oh Laughing , masyadong balck and white magbasa. Read between the lines. People are just making light remarks. Very Happy Anyways, bullies feel good about their craft, if it affects you. So just don't give him what he wants. Sakay lang ng sakay.

Kettle, magblowblowout ka?

San ba opis mo wireframan?

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Re: Office Problem

Post by render master on Tue Jul 07, 2009 7:06 pm

v_wrangler wrote:
Read between the lines. People are just making light remarks.
I know they was...and so i was. thumbsup

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Re: Office Problem

Post by wireframan on Tue Jul 07, 2009 7:13 pm

Good morning guys.. I just talked to my bosses at sabi nila sila raw ang dapat sisihin kasi hindi organisado ang takbo ng trabaho kaya na pressure tong lokong to ako ang pinagbalingan.. Nag promise naman ang mag boss na aariglohin lahat na gusot..I hope this time mag adjust na cya at e filter nya mag salita nya..I love my work in this company so baka magiging talunan lang ako at pagtawanan nya kung aalis ako dito. By the way maraming salamat sa mga payo ninyo at pag unawa. thumbsup


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Re: Office Problem

Post by render master on Tue Jul 07, 2009 7:16 pm

inuman na cheers for that. at least medyo ok ka na ngayon

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Re: Office Problem

Post by rfr320 on Tue Jul 07, 2009 7:46 pm

musta n sir miss n kita a hehehe.mawalang galang npo mkasagot n nga sa issue nto sir wireframan. nkakarelate ako sa kwento mo kc biktima din ako ng lokong yan diko alam kung san sya galing n planeta ibang ugali tlga di pede pkiusapan sya plagi tama at kung ano ung desisyon nya at ginawa mo tama eksakto mali pdin sa knya, un kc nabago nnmn desisyon nya sa design nya. tingin nya s mga tao nya tulad nmin ni rockgem buti nakaalis n kmi prang laruan lng sumagot k man maayos prang ang end ng usapan nyo away pdin.mlki problem ng boss nmin n yan dati. i hope mkalipat kn sir wireframan everyday hell tlga jan pgkasama mo yan may tao tlgang mhirap mbago. God bless sir

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Re: Office Problem

Post by celes on Tue Jul 07, 2009 7:59 pm

i hope lang na di natin tintignan ito in a racial light. kasi madami rin ako friends na thais super bait and kwela naman. yang mga ganyang parehas ng best friend mo archie mejo unique. Very Happy saka minsan ginagawa rin ng mga pinoy yan sa kapwa pinoy eh.

all the best to you sir thumbsup

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Re: Office Problem

Post by v_wrangler on Tue Jul 07, 2009 8:02 pm

I agree with mushroom. Let's heal the world - ika nga ni pareng MJ.

In the same way, we should also be very careful of how we project ourselves infront of our foreign friends. Some pinoys are badasses but it doesn't mean everyone's the same.

Goodluck and I hope this problem gets settled soon.

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Re: Office Problem

Post by eyecon01 on Tue Jul 07, 2009 8:13 pm

Wireframan, your not the one, kahit yung GF ko has the same treatment from her officemates and bosses, kaso nga lng yung sa kanila work related.

I asked a few Singaporeans, Thais and even Malaysians about the culture here. It seems pag pressured sila, they blow up. Hindi sila katulad natin na medyo ngiti muna at pag wala pa rin, idadaan muna sa kunting alaga, at tsaka doon sasabog...

Iba talaga pag ibang bansa bro. Kayat tama decision mu na hindi mu tinakasan. Next time, talk to him professionally, pakita mu na mas matalino ka at talagang mas magaling sa kanya. Pag tinira ka sabihin mung Software related, di nya naman na iintindihan e, at gagawin mung lahat para maayos.

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Re: Office Problem

Post by celes on Tue Jul 07, 2009 8:45 pm

I agree with eyecon. My wife and other friends feel the same - every office here in Singapore seems to have their share of bad apples. So in any case you may transfer to another office but then the situation might still be the same. It's really your choice whether you want to go with the pack - some say the only way to survive here is to be like them, act like them. I think that is why most Filipinos who have been here long enough have lost their identities by behaving just like the rest of them.

I say keep your integrity intact. Be professional and level headed however difficult that may be.

Of course you know your limits - set your boundaries. If they cross it - that's the time to make a stand.

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Re: Office Problem

Post by Yhna on Wed Jul 08, 2009 4:04 am

wireframan wrote:Good morning guys.. I just talked to my bosses at sabi nila sila raw ang dapat sisihin kasi hindi organisado ang takbo ng trabaho kaya na pressure tong lokong to ako ang pinagbalingan.. Nag promise naman ang mag boss na aariglohin lahat na gusot..I hope this time mag adjust na cya at e filter nya mag salita nya..I love my work in this company so baka magiging talunan lang ako at pagtawanan nya kung aalis ako dito. By the way maraming salamat sa mga payo ninyo at pag unawa. thumbsup

well gud to hear about it sir. at least kahit papaano magiging maluwag ang iyong dibdib.. and di ka na masyadong balisa. inuman na

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Re: Office Problem

Post by wireframan on Wed Jul 08, 2009 10:08 am

Guys thanks a lot for all the advice. rfr your so lucky nakawala ka dito sa office and to become a jedi and soon you'll become a master jedi. Don't worry I can manage this and I'm not afraid of him unless I did something stupid in the office but I know and everybody knows in the office I'm on the right track and this guy is obviously taking advantage of his position.

Sa lahat na nag reply maraming salamat sa inyo..napakalaking tulong po ang nagawa nyo! Mabuhay ang CGP!

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Re: Office Problem

Post by Guest on Thu Jul 09, 2009 2:42 am

Alapaap wrote:Pansamantala... tingnan mo lang lagi ang picture ng anak mo,ang pamilya mo...makakatulong yan sa pagiisip mo at kung ano man ang magiging desisyon mo

i like this one... +10 2thumbsup to wireframan... hope na maging maayos na nga ang lahat...

Very Happy

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